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Q: over the course of this school year, ive finally met a guy im comfortable with and has led me to believe he feels the same. although neither of us have come out and admited our feelings, we both have mutual signs/flirting that gives an obvious clue that we're into each other. he told me he wanted to hang out this summer and we traded cell numbers and everything, except im a bit new to this.
1) we're both going to be at camp/away this summer.. and i dont want to get all in his face about when he'll be home.. so im not sure when to expect him to come around
2) should i wait for him to contact me? or no?
3) if we do end up wanting to hang out.. ideas on what to do/where to go [id like some varied answers if possible]

thanks for your time, and i hope everyone has a great summer

Sounds like you have started a pretty good relationship with this guy.. props to you! Dont get in his face about when he is coming home from camp.. you could call him up and casually ask. I'm not sure if you should wait for him to come in contact. If you want to show him you are outgoing, you shouldnt. In my opinion, if he doesnt call, he may be shy, so you call him up and make the first move... invite him to do something with you and ask when he is going to summer camp and when he is coming back! If you hang out you could try going to the movies, bowling, going out for something to eat, just hanging out at the mall, or double-dating =-]

Rating: 5

aww thanks, that helped tons : )

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