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Q: i dont want to choose between my friends bc i love them both. i have 2 of the closest friends in the world. if i do something with one of them, the other one will get mad and say "oh well your leaving me out a lot and i feel left out" and all that and then i go over to the other one and hang out with her for like 12 minutes b4 the other one comes over and says "oh well your leaving me out a lot andi feel left out" so i do things like go to the movies with both of them and if i lean over and say something like "this movie is awesome" the other one will be like "YOUR LEAVING ME OUT AGAIN! WHAT ARE YOU SAYING TO HER?" so i talk loud so they both can hear me and boom...."DID YOU SAY SOMETHING TO HER THAT YOU DIDNT TELL ME?" and im like "NO!" so.....this goes on and on and on and on! im tired of it! I love them both to death but they are sooo annoying!!! I always do things with both of them at the same time and they just keep nagging me!! helpppp.

I definetly know how you and your friends feel! I've been in both your position and your friend's position before and I know what you are all going through! Try inviting them both to a sleepover and talking with them. Tell them they shouldnt feel left out if you tell one of them something because it would never be about the other one, because you love them way to much. If they care about you, their friendship with you, and one another, they will understand that this nagging cannot go on! Good luck =D

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My name is Maddie. I love to play softball, and I work on my pitching everyday. I desire to play in college. Standing on the mound, your heart beating fast, stike 1, strike 2, strike 3. SHUT OUT =D Feel free to ask me questions ANYTIME and I will answer them to the best of my ability.