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My bf and I just had a big fight. I'm a pretty emotional person, and i warn him a lot about that. Well he started pushing my buttons said i was lazy (after all i've done today was work and clean) and that i didnt try hard enough in school cause i didnt get straight A's cause of French and a 11th grade math class (only a freshman folks) and it upset me to the point where i picked up a razor set it down. took tumbtacks n stabbed my wrist with them. i stopped cutting awhile ago. i was gona break up with him cause i dont wanna start cutting agian. but he really usualy makes me happy. then he had to go n i was a bitch n said like hell u do. and im upset that i got so mad at him. did i have ne reason to?
Also, i told him to go away leave me alone n shit put up aways but he kept pestering me. saying i was cute when i was mad. or it was funny or sumtin.
why so emotional??? or is he being a dick?

well first off sweetie you should never turn to cutting or hurting yourself as an answer for anything! your not solving anything that way and anybody who says it takes away stress is insane. but yes you have every right to be upset!!! you dont have to get straight a's to be good in school. espically since your just a freshman and your taking what algebra II or pre-cal?? thats AMAZING! and also you being a girl should know that guys never think girls do anything all day when we say "oh ive cleaned this and cleaned that" so i would just roll that off. next time he says something like that just be like whatever! and move on to the next subject. let me know if you need anything else hun! keep me updated!!! xoxoxoxoxo

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