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well this guy that i like says he wouldnt go out with me because i was prude but im not soo he said if i wasnt prude then i have to have sex with him to prove him but now i think about it i dont want to cause i just isnt right at my age (15) and i dont what to say to him that i dont want to have sex with him just to show him im not prude!! everytime i talk to him he always says are u ready to have sex but i always say yes because if u dont then he might spread rumors about me which he is really good at!!! soo i dont know what to do at this point!!! HELP!!!! (link)
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Ok, first off, you shouldn't keep saying yes. You're not prude if you don't wanna have sex. Prude is like not wanting to even hug a person or anything like that. You just need to tell him that you are not prude you just don't wanna have sex yet and then begin telling him "What if I got pregnant because the condom broke? Would you stick by my side? What if you suck? Would you want me to tell people that?" and just scare him out of it, but I reccomend just saying, "I don't want to have sex, I barely even know you,". Simple. Well, not really, but you've got to tell him the truth, but you aren't prude and I honestly don't know why you like him. He's just trying to pressure you into sex by calling you prude. So I say "GET OVER HIM!!!". I'll give you five good reasons why:
1) He's a jerk, OBVIOUSLY!!!
2)Do you want to be pressured into sex? Didn't think so...
3)Do you want him to sex you up and leave you?
4)Do you want to get pregnant?
and last but not least 5) He obviously doesn't know how good you are if he's calling you prude. Any guy would be lucky to have you and here this guy you like is already belittling you!
So please just get rid of him, before you do something you'll regret. I am not for waiting until marriage, but I am for waiting until you find someone you really know and love with all of your heart and truly trust. :)
~K~
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wow thanks that help soo much!! maybe i should look that in prospective...i guess if he truely liked me he would like me for who i am not for i can do!!!
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