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Ive always had a small group of friends that all got along. Well in the past 3 days it all fell apart. One friend got mad at me for something totally retarded, and then all of a sudden the other friend had a problem with me too. Now come to find out they've been talking behind my back about it. Im not saying they're totally at fault for whats going on because I know I am partly responsible for it, but I dont see why they couldnt come to me and say whatever it is they had to say instead of ganging up on me and then talking behind my back. I just dont know what to do. Ive tried talking to them about it and that didnt make anything better they just acted as if I was full of it and ignored what I said. So should I just give up on 2 people who were my bestfriends and get over it, or keep trying no matter how bad things already are? Please help. And if anyone wouldn't mind it would be easier to give off the whole situation over aim to give a better view point. Thanks again everyone.

WOW...you are in THE EXACT SITUATION as my friend...and im one of the two best friends she lost. I wonder if you are her..i guess i'll find out when you take the peoples advice or not huh. Well i was the one she lost..because my friend,who was in your situation,was a mean person and alls she did was ignore me and talk crap. She never paid attension to this though. So i gave up on her. But i still like her..shes not a bad person if she wasnt so mean we'd still be friends. But i would say..if i were you..to forget about them..if they dont like you,just stop trying..far to many people try to impress others.

and ps--dont take the first persons advice--you shouldnt be like them,that makes EVERYTHING worse..thats not nice and sooner or later they'll find out,plus its bitchy to rip friends aparts for your likeing..things will be worse if you do that.

and PPS--im not mean like your "friends",just to tell you..you might have thought i was comparing myself to them about the backstabbing part..but i wasnt..
good luck anyhow..
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(Rating: 5) Thanks it helps a lot. And trust me I would never take the advice from the first person. It for 1 wasnt helpful and 2 would force me to stoop to their level. Thanks for your input though.
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