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okay .. well i'm going out with this really great guy, but before he asked me out we were like REALLY tight friends .. and right now i dont feel like we're getting anywhere and we might not last for much longer. but the thing is he really loves me, and i really do love him too but i wanna break up with him, so if we get in a fight we won't lose our friendship too. he's an awesome guy .. but i like someone else too, and i'll never have a chance with him if i'm tied ((spelling .. ?)) down with my current boyfriend. i KN0W THiZ iZ L0NG BUT PLEASE HELP ME!

If you actually loved him you wouldn't be interested in any other guys. Stop playing with his feelings and just break up with him if you don't want to bein a relationship with him. What you're doing is selfish and mean, and breaking up with him for another guy will probably fuck up your friendship. Being in a relationship isn't just about you and what you want, it's also about your boyfriend's or girlfriend's needs and feelings. If you can't respect them then why bother being in a relationship?

Do what you think will be best for the two of you but please understand that your actions do have consequences and that you will need to deal with them.

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(Rating: 4) thnx for the advice, but i want to make it clear that i'm not breaking up with him for another guy, i'm breaking up with him because i dont really feel anything other then a friendly love, and i dont want to lose our friendship because we went out and lost it for a fight or something stupid like that.
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