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Q: ok to set the pic i am 13/f and he is 16/m. ok so on to my problem: this kid, lets call him john. well anyways i really like john, but he doesnt like mein that way. he used to be my bros bff, but now we pretty close. wheni was younger i used to like him, and he liked me, but we were too young. well anyways the thing is, i asked him is he liked me nad he was like no,i like this other girl in my grade and i am gonna ask her out. i said oh ok. they just broke up today, and idk if i shopuld tell him how i feel. like i dont want our friendship to change but i really want tolet him know. please help i need to know what to do. also should i ask him how he sees me, i havent seen him in like a month but we always talk on im. so please help
signed,
confused about *him*
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Alright first of I would like to start with AGE in this case does not matter.. what that girl said is totaly off.. yes if you were dating a 8 year old it would be odd.. but I was 13 and went out with a 16 year old.. If he was 18 i would say think again but he isnt! so dont listen to her.. im not trying to be rude.. but dont listen to her..
secondly i think you should wait a few days.. then be honest and be like.. "john" i have had a crush on you for a while.. but You had a girlfriend and I wanted to respect that.. so I just wanted to tell you.. and wonder if you could ever feel that way.. but its cool if you just wana be friends.. thats ok to..
You dont have to say exactly that but the point is you want to be honest but let him still have the option of being friends.. so that way.. if it doesnt work out right now.. you uys can be friends and maybe have it happen in the future.
I hope I helped a little bit atleast
-maddie
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I hope I helped a little bit atleast
not you helped ALOT!
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I'm 17 years old and in the few years i've lived upon this earth I have been throug many and most things that are possible to happen. I wish to ilve my life helping others, this truly brings me happiness. Feel free to ask whatever you wish and ill do my best to satisfy yu with a decent answer.
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