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Im 18 years old.I love giving advice to people.I try the best i can. Im going to be having a baby very soon.I love spending time with my friends and chatting online.Also writting in online journals, going to the library and spending time with my boyfriend and family. Also enjoy fishing and going to my lil bros baseball games , and going to the movies

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Ok, my girlfriend is pregnant and she's really worried about it. We're both 19 and this wasn't planned or anything. We talked about it for a long time and we both agreed that we want to keep it. Her parents disowned her when she was 18 becasue she started to see me, because she was raised catholic and I'm not catholic. I felt that was rediculous because I have nothing against catholics and I was willing to join the church if it meant I could be with her but she decided that she didn't want that...anyway her parents won't be helping us with her pregnancy and with the baby so we're on our own. (my mother is dead and I've never met my father) I know that she's going to be going through a lot with her pregnancy and I was wondering if anyone knew how I could help her get through with a little more ease. I'm working two jobs one full time and the other part time so I'm not around that much. But is there anything that I can do to be of any help to her or is there anything that I should look out for? I was also wondering about taking care of baby. If anyone has any tips about taking care of baby that would be a big help as well. Thank you for the advice and I will rate a five for any help.

Tim

Im 18 years old right now and im pregnant . The best ways for a guy to help out in the realtionships is to be there for her emotionally . We women tend to get mean and emotional the further along in the pregnancy. She might feel sick and tired sometimes and need your help with somethings. So the best thing is to help her out and ask her if she needs anything. Make sure she gets good sleep to because her sleeping might change , it gets harder to sleep when your pregnant . If you share a bed it gets harder for her because shes going to want to lay other ways then she did before. Believe me im 8months now and i cant get comfortable if i tried. She will get upset over things much easier. Her parents might come around at some point i mean its there granchild it didnt do anything to them.But im sure if you want the baby , you too will be able to handle it. Taken care of a baby is a hard thing , but it will get easier. Just when the baby comes be ready to not get any sleep , and be up all hours. I wish you both the best of luck and im sure you too can make it. Just remember.. -- mood changes , cravings --she will want things weird, she will want ice cream probley , i always wanted ice cream. -- Goodluck!!!*mDezzy--->

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for the help
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