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GIVING PPL ADVISE IS ONE OF THE THINGS I LOVE TO DO! I LOVE TO HELP OTHERS AND NKNOW THAT SOMEONE WOULD LIKE ME TO HELP THEM BRINGS A PLEASURE TO ME EVEYDAY! I AM WILLING TO DO ANYTHING THAT I AM ASKED TO DO AND SOMETIMES DOING MORE THAN I AM ASKED KNOWING THAT IT WILL HELP SOMEONE SOMEDAY. I AM A REALLY BIG CHRISTIAN GIRL, I LOVE TO HELP OTHERS, AND I HATE IT WHEN OTHERS TALK ABOUT PPL!
WELL I HOPE I CAN HELP ALL THAT ASK FOR MY ADVICE AND HOPE TO CHANGE LIVES TOO.
LOVE YA ALL!

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I met this guy on a Friday and got his number on Saturday. We talked nonstop on Sunday, Monday and Tuesday and he asked me out on Wednesday. Well, we went out for six days before I asked him if he thought we rushed into things and of course he said yes and I asked him if he would like to take a break so we could actually get to know each other and he said no, but I pushed it and now we are on a "break" and I feel really bad like I've hurt him. He hasn't talked to me at all. I feel really bad, but I know that I rushed into it. Did I do the right thing by taking the break? And do you think he's mad at me? I would put more details about him for the past two days, but he hasn't said anything to me so I can't.

14/f, um...the guy is 15/m

Thanks so much!

YES! you did the perfect thing. In a relationship it takes two ppl to work it out and if one thinks that it was pushed to much then of course you did the right thing. Now the question is is he mad at u? If he is then that is his own fault becuse he loves you and wants to be with you he would want to wait. REMEMBER it takes two for a relationship to work adn if hes mad at you because you did the right thing then that just proves he really didnt want ot be with you. HOPE I HELPED!!!!

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(Rating: 5) Thank you soooooooo much. I completely agree with the "it takes two" philosophy. I'm happy with my decision to take a break. Thanks so much for your advice. :)
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