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There is this guy i like. lets call him k. but like 5 other girls do too. But this might sound like something everyone would say, but i've liked k the longest. one of my friends, lets call her r, who also likes k started liking him after me and when k found out we both liked him, he told my other friend, s, he liked both of us back. now that was a while ago. then r, went out with someone totally different, we'll call him a. but then a broke up with r like 2 weeks later and r started liking k again. now all this time, i've liked k. NOW, my other friend, L, likes k also!!! but i've talked to both of them and my friend r says that even though she likes k, she knows how much i do and that i could have him. i guess. then L told me that she knows how long i've liked k and that she knows how it feels to not get the one that you want and to watch someone else have him. (thats a different story). but then if i get k, i'll feel really bad for all the others who like him, even though i've been waiting forever to have him, even before i knew anyone else liked him. please help. i dont know what to do.
~ E
First of all, no one knows who these people are so I don't know why you just created an alphabet of people. That's pretty immature to begin with and maybe you aren't ready to date.

Second, it doesn't matter who likes him the longest or who likes him now or whatever else, it matters who he likes also. If he doesn't want to date you, he won't. If you really want to see if he likes you, the most mature thing you can do is ask him.

i created an alphabet of people so i dont name the person, but you can tell when i'm talking about the different people at different times. and thanx for the advice but i sorta already did ask him and its been a while and its just very confusing, but he asked out another girl today and i dont give a crap about it and i'm going to name my fish his name and starve it. ;-)
thanx
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