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Q: i just started a new job a couple days ago, and i've come to believe that one of my co-workers doesn't like me very much.

why i think that is because on my second day, i came up to her to ask her a question to see if our store carried baby books for a customer that was looking for one. my co-worker just rudely glared at me for long while, and looked away without answering my question.

as you can imagine, i was pretty pissed off because i hadn't familiarized myself with the merchandise and the customer was waiting on me to give her a response. and my co-worker, who was working in infants, didn't even bother to put any effort into helping this customer!

not only that, she ignores me every time i'm around and she complained to the same customer i was dealing with: "she doesn't know anything, she hasn't even been working here long."

what i want to know is what i should do about this situation? obviously i don't want to confront her about it with the risk of increased hostility between us. and i'm not sure if it's appropriate to talk to my other co-workers about it...should i just wait it out and toughen up and hopefully she won't be so "bitchy"?


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Definitally do not run to your other co-workers and tattle on her. If you have a problem with her, take it up with her. Politely ask her if she has a personal problem with you because you noticed she has been rather hostile towards you. Also, if she was working in infants, wouldn't that mean the baby books were right around there? You could have also directed the customer right over to her since you are so new. Make sure you make that clear to any customer who you cannot help and familiarize yourself with the store more.

yes, that's why i went up to go ask her, because it was in her area and i wasn't familiar with the merchandise. don't you think she'd offer to help the customer, who was right there with me, instead of glaring at me?

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