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Q: ok, i love my girl friend, and i have loved her since the day i first saw her, and because i have loved her for so long (i first saw her 12 years ago) when i finnally got to be with her (just 3 months ago) i guess i went really into things cause i felt (causa my love for her) that we've been going out for 12 years, but i didnt get to do anything...so i guess i rushed into things when we were first going out... All we have done was i hold her during movies, and i put my head on her shoulder, and then every once in a while i kiss her on her cheek or neck. And now, she said that she wants to take it slower, but i dont really know how to go TOO much slower, i mean, i first kissed her on the cheek when we were going out for 2 1/2 months. So does anyone have any advice on what i can do so i can show my affection, but not doing "too much"??
Maybe she feels that you are pressuring her or that you want to move further. Tell her that you respect her feelings and ask her if there is anything you could do to make her feel less uncomfortable? Also, don't run around telling her how much you love her and always will because that will just make her feel like you are stalking her and have a weird obsession.

ok, thanks

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