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Q: hey my name is Ashley and i'm a feamle(of course) and i'm 14 yrs. old heres my question for anybody with good advice!!!

I like my best friends ex!!! Heres the scoop... they broke up because my best friend was confused and she cheated on him. Well now(two months later) she starts telling me she now knows what she was missing and she really did love him and she wants desperately to go with him again. Now i've been talking to him since they broke up because he needed a friend cuz he really liked her but she cheated on him.(yea i kno guys actually have feelings...well at least the good ones) and i'm starting to like him now i mean he's the perfect boyfriend he's cute, hilarious, loving, i don't know he's just soOoOo great!! the thing is that my best friend who i've been friends with for almost 11 yrs. still "loves" him i really really think she'll be so mad if he askes me out or if i ask him. I dont know what to do cuz i dont want her to be mad at me but i dont get very many guys nowadays and i really like him and he told me i was hot yesterday please help me!!

Luv,

~~~ASHLEY~~~

P.S. i rate high

Well, I do think that he likes you if he told you that you were hot. If you can, be honest with your best friend and tell her that you are attracted to him and have recently thought about hooking up with him. Normally, she will be pretty pissed off, but there isn't much you can do about that. Most likely, this will all cause a lot of problems and you probably shouldn't get involved, but you need to weigh your options and see which path you prefer.

EDITED: I don't know why you just insulted me, I know that he said YOU were hot.