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Hi ... I'm Nicole. I don't aim to get high ratings (though it would be nice) but aim to help. I've been given (and given) advices about datin', family probs (if you're anythin' like me), friendship , school and Life as a whole (that does not mean i don't have probs) and I'ld like to help answer YOUR questions. I may have questions as well, so pls, feel free to contribute. I learn from questions asked and the advices given. However, if you'ld like to know me personally, u can contact me through my email add.
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Well lets see where do i start.. My mom and step dad got in a fight yesterday over my step dad not going places with her *like movies,out to eat,work out..* well anyways after a couple hours of all this my step dad left to go to work.. so then a little bit later my mom called me down stairs and was like you better end your relationship with your boyfriend soon cause he'll get you to where you dont wanna leave him *he already does* adn then he'll hurt you and he wont want to do anything with you anymore.. well then it turned into a big arguement with me and my mom she never exactly met my boyfriend *we been together almost a year.. and she thinks she knows this boy and thinks he's a complete asshole like my step dad is to her.. well anyways i said shit like that to her.. and she said okay whatever you'll see then... Well later on that night i was talkin to my boyfriend and then i started think bout what my mom said * i know i shouldnt let that shit get to me* but it bothered me and i brought it up to my boyfriend and he got mad and i hung up on him... then he texted me and said *baby im so sorry i love you, and that he dont want my mom interfering with our relationship..cause im the only person who he needs in his life cause im always there for him through anything..* Aww isnt it sweet well him and me are cool... but what should i say to my mom so this dont happen again...?

Just tell sit your mum down and tell her that not all men are like your step father. And I know your b/f better than she does, so you know that he's not at all like your step father. She'll understand. Hey, be calm when you're talkin' to her - even if she gets all defensive and angry. '...Soft words turns away wrath.' She'll come to realize the truth of your words, and have a different attitude towards your guy, and other men as well. Good luck.
Nicole

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(Rating: 5) Thanks ill try talking to her.. much luv x0x0


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