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Q: This is going to sound gross at first and I apologize. I'm going to try to word it as maturely as possible. Okay, I was talking to this boy that I sort of like, well, that I'm "attracted" to & he had a "boner" or whatever term you want to use. This happened right in the middle of lunch when we were chatting. People found out and started say that means I "arroused" him and that he must have some sort of attraction to me. I'm kind of confused on whether this is what it means because this happened. Thanks.

Btw, I'm 14/f

*jEsS*

Well....Puberty Hits...and it hits hard...I'm sure you are trying to be mature about this, But i must say that this is completely normal for young adult males to experience. You have to understand that at this age the male reproductive organ...Or his penis...Is going through changes.Hormones that he has no control over are taking over his body. Although It might be true that you might of arroused the young man, you must understand that at this age young men cant control their errections, thus making an embarrassing impact on their lives. So in other words you cant blame the poor guy on something uncontrolable like this, so if you like him ,let him know you are mature about it and overlook what happened. I mean even sometimes for us women its hard to control our bodies.

Rating: 5

You give excellent advice. Thanks for giving such a mature, thought out answer.

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