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hiya I'm shelly, I'm 20 and from England. I have the best boyfriend in the world and he means so much to me. I love to help people and I've just started using Advicenators again. I hope i can help you all with your problems feel free to email me xadvice
ok well im goung out with this guy but his name wont be reavealed and well he went to this party last nite and he told me before he went that he wants me to kno that he loves me and that no matter wat happens to remember that and i told him i would and today i find out from his sister who also was at the party with him that she had walked in on him and another gurl last nite and im not shurr if he was drunk or not and i juss found this out a few minutes ago and well i dont kno wat to do becuz i dont want to dump him becuz i love him so much but at the same time im not shurr if i can trust him as much as i did becuz of wat he did becuz im not always going to be there to prevent these things from happening and i've never loved anyone as much as i love him and it hurts so much i've never been so upset in my life im more upset now than when my own grandfather died and its creepy becuz i've previously stopped cutting myself and now i keep getting the urge to do drugs again and to cut myself again and i dont want to go bak to doing that but a part of me thinks thats the only way to make myself stop thinking about him but i dont want to stop loving him but a part of me wants to and it's all jus to confusing and frustrating and i need your help becuz i also dont want to try and kill myself like i have done about 5 times plz help me through this!!!!!!
DONT DO DRUGS OR CUT YOURSELF!!!! that is the last thing you need and i know it may seem lik the only option but it isn't. well this is really hard because you love him so much but you have to ask yourself can you ever trust him again? if not then dump him because he really isnt worth it if he treats you this way, you deserve alot lot better than somebody who treats you like you dont mean a thing! Tell him that you know about everything and talk it out with him! tell him that you love him and that you dont want to lose him but your confused about what to think. I know it seems like the end of the world but you wil get through it togehter! just both stick together!!! i hope i have helped but whatever you do please dont cut yourself or drugs coz you will regret it!
all my love
shelly
(Rating: 3) thanx for the advice it worked alittle but im still a little confused