Boys, up to a certain age (usually college) are completely freaking clueless about how to converse with a girl. They have a lot of pressure to get one, but once they do, the very great majority don't have the self-esteem or social skills necessary to have a normal relationship. In fact, you'll be hard-pressed to have a normal, two-way relationship until the end of highschool. Girls mature first and their brains develop much faster than boys', and their social skills are pressed upon them by society--boys are encouraged to be physically active, not to learn how to make a damn conversation. Have you noticed?
Pretty much, this is just going to be an awkward and unsatisfying period in your life. It is for everyone. The best I can suggest is going somewhere with a group--boys are usually a little more relaxed if they don't think you're paying so much attention to them. Less pressure. Just be cool with it and don't expect much.

thanks

People have been coming to me for advice so long, I might as well do this all in one spot. I watch a lot of unfathomable Japanese TV and drink a lot of coffee. I'm a freshly-hatched Illustration major, formerly trapped & dying in the American South, now busily teaching phrases to all of Nagoya Japan. I'm always on the lookout for more video games and sushi.
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