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Q: okay this question is for my friend who can't ask it so i am doing it for her. well her best friend just recently died at age 12. and she wants to go to her funeral and wants me to go with her but her mom won't let her go because its during school and she thinks she will get all emotional but she really wants to go so she can say bye and she wants me to go with her so she has a shoulder to cry on if she needs one. does anyone know how she can get her mom to change her mind and let her go to her best friends funeral? please help.
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Tell her mother that school is something that will be on her shoulders for a few years--but if she doesn't get closure, and the ability to grieve in an appropriate place, she will be burdened by this sorrow for the rest of her life. Her mother has probably dealt with loss before, and may be afraid of death. That's pretty common. It's important, at any cost, to get her to the funeral so she can psychologically feel better. Are you allowed to go? Will your parents let you? Kidnap her from school if you have to, but tell her mom she needs to grieve for her friend.
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thanks but its too late now
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People have been coming to me for advice so long, I might as well do this all in one spot. I watch a lot of unfathomable Japanese TV and drink a lot of coffee. I'm a freshly-hatched Illustration major, formerly trapped & dying in the American South, now busily teaching phrases to all of Nagoya Japan. I'm always on the lookout for more video games and sushi.
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Website: Gender: Female Location: America, now Nagoya Occupation: Eigo sensei/Illustrator Age: 22 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: December 5, 2003 Answers: 255 Last Update: October 11, 2008 Visitors: 23043
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