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I'd appreciate some direct ways to say something to my bf of over a year.
we'd been talking and he needed a float loan of $800 for a few days to help with a mortgage approval. that is ok. but when he called about it, i mentioned the fact that one of my friends saw his updated ad on match.com, that it hurt my feelings, he knows it hurts my feelings, i care about him a great deal, and i thought we were over and done with that BS months ago. His reply was... can we talk later? can I call you later? I said 'are you gonna call me later?' and he said yes. I said ok and we hung up. I know his style and he'll probably test the waters in a few days and then never mention it again.
Guys... just help me say no more, clearly in a way that he doesn't just shut down. Thanks.
ps... me f/39 and him m/35
I went through this with the guy I love ... I would just confront him about it ... at least it worked for me, I had to break up with him but if you still want to talk to him let him know your always there for him if he needs to talk ... that way he wont shut down and think the world is over ...Just be as best a friend as you can be even if it hurts at least he wont break down and do anything stupid, thats what I did with my guy and we still talk everyday on the phone and online and everything although it is a bit weird at times ... you'll get through it .. good luck and remember you deserve better
- Malicious
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good advice... thank you.
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