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I recently found out that my boyfriend drinks. Every fiber of my bones is completely and utterly against drinking and alcohol. I hate it like you would not believe. My dad was an alcoholic and my best friend died from drinking and driving a few years ago.

I love him. I really do. I care about him and beg him not to drink. But he tells me he knows his limits. He says he doesnt get drunk just "tipsy". The other night he went out with a few of his friends and they played drinking games. He didnt tell me about it but his friend did.

I feel lied to. I feel betrayed. I know it's his life and he can do as he pleases. I dont want him to think Im trying to control him. But I dont want him to die either.

Help me. Should I leave? Should I stay? How can I look past his drinking habits?

It sounds like you are reallly against drinking. This can be very dangerous. You never know what could happen... you could totally trust him and get in a car with him and he could crash from being drunk. If he didn't tell you about the drinking games he played, he is not going to tell you aout any other drinks he's had. My advice is to stay away. It might be hard to break up with him for this, and you might fell heartbroken with out him. He is not worth your life. Lying about drinking is bad and you could lose your life just getting in a car with him. Stay away from him, he can be dangerous. But you can choose... your life, or him...

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(Rating: 5) You're right. I hadn't even considered that. Thanks a lot.
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