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I recently found out that my boyfriend drinks. Every fiber of my bones is completely and utterly against drinking and alcohol. I hate it like you would not believe. My dad was an alcoholic and my best friend died from drinking and driving a few years ago.
I love him. I really do. I care about him and beg him not to drink. But he tells me he knows his limits. He says he doesnt get drunk just "tipsy". The other night he went out with a few of his friends and they played drinking games. He didnt tell me about it but his friend did.
I feel lied to. I feel betrayed. I know it's his life and he can do as he pleases. I dont want him to think Im trying to control him. But I dont want him to die either.
Help me. Should I leave? Should I stay? How can I look past his drinking habits?
Tell him how much it means to you that he stops drinking. If he doesn't stop drinking maybe you guys can come to an agreement as to how much he should drink.
He may feel controlled by it though so you must let him know that you're not trying to control him that you're just scared of losing him after everything you've been through that happens to be drink related.
As for him lying, I don't think it's a biggie. Talk to him about it too, maybe it has a good explaination. He might not of wanted to tell you because he didn't want to worry you or he didn't want you to flip out on him even though that's not excuse to lie he might have a good explaination for it.
Good Luck, hun.
♥Em
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