My name is Melanie, and I'm 14 years old. I live in MA. I love to play soccer, and have been playing since I was little. I like to play other sports as well. I love hanging out with my friends, of course.
Lately I've been going through a lot of crap so I wanted to make one of these, so I could help other people if they needed it. Some people may not like my advice, but I can't please everyone. I'll try to help you as much as I can. If you'd like to talk to me on IM for some reason, my s/n is lostxinside87. My e-mail is SoccerChick62591@aol.com if you want to e-mail me, if you do, make sure you put advice in the subject, otherwise it will be deleted.
P.S feedback is always welcomed =). And thanks for those of you who give me awesome feedback, it's greatly appreciated, and I'm glad I helped!
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My friend ((We'll call her M)) is a total sl**. She knows it and is proud of it. She stabs people in the back and screws you over. She turns on you and talks crap on you behind your back. My 2 best friends and i ditched her because we knew she wasn't a good friend to have. Now she is friends with lots of girls... at least she thinks she is. They all hate her, but they won't tell her! I wouldn't mind becoming friends with her again, but how can i learn to trust her and believe what she tells me if she did all this stuff to me the first time around? (link)
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I would give it a little time. She if she changes. If she does, she'll probably realize what a loss it was to lose you as a friend, and will go back to you. If you don't want to do that, I would get to know her better. If you truly think she changed, and has become trustworthy, then you could try telling her something. Maybe you could tell her something little, that you don't care if everyone knows, and if she blabs you know she hasn't changed. I wouldn't trust her right away, I would do it little by little, only if you feel she has changed. "It takes years to gain trust, but seconds to throw it away..."
Hope I helped!
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