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Hey guys! i just started going out with this boy who is absolutly amazing... he's perfect for me, and is soooo sweet and increible i love him !lol.. we've only been going out for a month but already i've like fallen for him. But i was wondering, what are some tips to keep it going realy well? becuase i don't want to loose him. He also likes me a lot too, but i just want little things that could make him more attachted or somthing. Thankss (link)
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Well, it sounds like you are off to a great start! Now, to keep it going this way, its the little things that matter, so constantly remind him how much you care. Don't go overboard, just once in awhile suprise him with something special, like a batch of his favorite cookies. Or suprise him and take him to a romantic little spot to have a picnic, write him love letters, give him spontaneous kisses...whatever. People tend to get bored and restless when they are in predictible and boring relationships, so try not to let the two of you fall into routines where you always do the same thing every weekend, or always talk about the same things. Change it up every once in awhile, and suggest new places to go on dates, and try new things together, like hiking, or rockclimbing, or a new type of food. It will be a great bonding experience, and a sort of adventure to keep the relationship from getting dull. But, most importantly, keep open communication with each other, and maintain mutual respect and trust. Those are truly the keys of happy couples. Good luck! Leave me a message in my inbox if you want some fun ideas for dates, or cute things to suprise him with!
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