My name is Melanie, and I'm 14 years old. I live in MA. I love to play soccer, and have been playing since I was little. I like to play other sports as well. I love hanging out with my friends, of course.
Lately I've been going through a lot of crap so I wanted to make one of these, so I could help other people if they needed it. Some people may not like my advice, but I can't please everyone. I'll try to help you as much as I can. If you'd like to talk to me on IM for some reason, my s/n is lostxinside87. My e-mail is SoccerChick62591@aol.com if you want to e-mail me, if you do, make sure you put advice in the subject, otherwise it will be deleted.
P.S feedback is always welcomed =). And thanks for those of you who give me awesome feedback, it's greatly appreciated, and I'm glad I helped!
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okay this is semi long so i am sorry but i really want advice: my mom died when i was 3 and i went to SO MUCH counseling. family,alone you name it. i stopped around the end of 3rd grade. but now that i am a teenager i realize how much i want/need a mother figure. i have my grandmother and i love her dearly but its not the same. i try to talk to my friends but they cant really relate and i feel bad making my problems their problems. i sort of want to go back to counseling but it costs SO MUCH and i am not sure i need it....
help me please? (link)
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Hello there. I know you =).
First off, DO NOT HESITATE TO MAKE YOUR PROBLEMS MINE. I LOOVE helping you! I want you to trust me, and be able to vent on me without hesitation. I want you to be happy! Don't hold things in like me! You are more open than me, but I know you don't tell me everything. Which is fine, cause I don't want to force you to tell me stuff! But honestly, when I help you I help myself. You always say you feel bad for not being there for me. Even though you ALWAYS are, whether or not you realize it. Knowing I help you makes me happy. I love knowing I helped you, and made you happier. AND it makes me feel worth something.
If I were you, I would probably need counseling. But that's me. If you think you need it, then speak up and tell your dad. Even though I can't relate, I'd love to help you, and you BETTER know that! Like a few others said, maybe even your guidance counselor.... or another mom you trust (which I can't see you going to another mom..).
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