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hi . ok well here it goes. im 14 and i have been going out with this guy named anthony , he's 16. we have been going out for a month and ive practically fallen in love with him . and he's like in love with me . well he is on probation for burglary and he told me he is not that kind of person anymore . and i said to him that if you mess up then i cant be with you. he understood and said ok. well before he met me he's done some crazy things. one of them is drugs. pot , coke , x , etc. well i told him i dont want him doing ANY of that because i hate drugs and a lot of my friends have gotten hurt and i love him to much to see that happen to him. so last night we were on the phone and we were watching cops and they did sum drug bust. and it was coke . and he's like "yea i did that a couple days ago". i got really pissed and yelled and screamed and started crying. and like he promised me he would never do that and he says he loves me and would do anything for me , but my relationship feels like a big lie. i really need some help or someone normal to talk to because my friends are all messed up to like that. im not that kind of person. he said "i have not found anyone yet like me" and im like "well if yout hought i was that kind of person , then your wrong." he said a lot more but theres to much to type. someone IM me at xIxMissthugxIx@aol.com . someone please help me with this.
Everybody deserves a second chance, granted what your boyfriend did was wrong. Let him know this is his last chance, and if he screws up again, then it's over. Now since you love him, it'd be hard leavin him, and it'd hurt for awhile, but it'd only make you stronger in the end. If he does screw up, and you do leave him, then hopefully he'll realize he needs to do somethin, and stop usin drugs! One can only hope...Hope this helps! Good luck! Much Love!!
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Jessie
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ya. thats what i wanna do. my parents found out about this whole thing! agh! i was talkin to my friend and she had the same problem with her b/f and she told him how seh felt and he stopped and he was in gangs in miami and stuff to. theyve been goin out for 1 yr. and i wanna keep my baby for a long time. so ima talk to him.
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