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Hey. Well, there's this boy I like in my school, and I he may like me to, as to what my friend said...but I didn't hear the whole thing. Well, I found out her liked me when he was going out with his ex, so I didn't rush anything because I didn;t want to break them up. The later on broke up because she was cheating on him with 2 other guys, but no he goes out with another girl. I was so upset when they said he had a new girlfriend because I figured, why would he go out with another girl if he really liked me. I don't know what to do, and I think about him all of the time, what should I do because I really, really like him and I'm not to the type to make the first move! (link)
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Maybe you should tell him how you feel. If you want him to be honest with you, then you have to be honest with him, as well. Tell him this, 'Listen, I had heard that you liked me and I want to know if this is true, because I actually have feelings for you as more than a friend.' That way, he knows how you feel, and he is put on the spot so he has to tell you what is going on. If he says he feels the same way, that's great. Maybe he thought you didn't like him and didn't ask you out because he didn't want to be rejected. If he doesn't feel the same way about you, then at least you know and you don't have to keep wondering forever. If you don't want to ask him straight up about it, go talk to one of his friends that you can trust. Casually bring up your boy's name, and ask his friend what is going on with him. Say something like, 'I really wish 'boy's name' wasn't going out with 'new girlfriends name' because I really like him. Do you know if he likes me at all? Someone had told me that he did, but I didn't know if it was true or not.' His friend hopefully will know something, and he might even go tell him that you like him, which would be good. If he knows you like him and he feels the same way, that would be great. Don't be afraid to make the first move, you are going to have to be a little bit bold in this situation in order to find out what he is thinking, and if he still likes you. Hope that helped a little, good luck!
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Thanks. I think that from your advice, I will probably make the first move because I can;t wonder forever. It will take time though because things don't happen that easily. Although, I may try and tell him my feelings when he breaks up with them girl which will probably be soon because I don't really think that they have a good connection because she sort of annoys him I think and some people don't like her, because I don't want to break them up...I just hope it won't be too late. Well, thanks for the advice, and continue what you're doing!
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