I'm a band geek in my senior year of high school and I'm not telling where I live. I go by Lyss online, if you want to know, and I have all sorts of interests, including: band, music, reading, writing, a bit of art, Irish dance, and just too many to name in a single profile. I love to give advice, because it makes me feel good knowing that I can help someone and share my knowledge. I'm very straight-forward and honest, if at times long-winded, but you can count on the advice that I give to be from personal experience or the experience of a close friend.
E-mail: ClarinetGirlALS@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pick a place, I've been lots!
Occupation: Student/Musician
AIM: ClarinetGirlALS
Member Since: October 17, 2003
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Ok here goes, I am an advice giver and everything but I can't fix this problem. I go to a school where there is a whole bunch of guys. I have a major crush on one of them but every time I make a move on a guy I like, I get these kinds of remarks such as "You should jump off a bridge and save yourelf the embarassment of actually having a love life". Remarks like these are said to me everyday and somehow they have etched themselves into my head and they won't go away. Now it seems like the only way to get rid of them is to commit suicide. I have thought about it many times but I want help. Please answer back. I don't know how much more of these remarks I can stand. (link)
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Ok, first of all, I've been down a similar path. I a couple years ago desperately wanted to end everything. I know it's tough, but yuo've gotta stick it out. You're better than these people making the remarks. If you kill yourself, they win. They beat you. Stay strong. About the crush, is he someone who you know, who you talk to, who you like to be around simply because of who he is? If he treats you well, then go for it, but be careful. I've been burned before too. You really have to stay strong for me, though, and talk to someone who can really help. I hated counseling, but I think that it probably did help. If you need someone just to talk to, my e-mail is ClarinetGirlALS@wmconnect.com and my IM is ClarinetGirlALS.
Keep strong, gorgeous! You'll pull through, and you'll end up successful, and all the jackasses making fun of you will work in McDonald's for the rest of their lives!
Lyss
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Thanks. I just feel like i have nowhere to go
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