ImHere4u's advice column

ok this is probably the most asked question EVER. lol, but what do i do about guys. i mean, whenever is see a nice guy at my church...the mall...idk around, i ALWAYS want to talk to them, but i never do. I wanted to know how to talk to guys without feeling stupid or embarassed...or without having them think im a freak or like a terrorist. lol. but sometimes they are surrounded by girls. Like this one kid i saw today at my church, he was hott and really funny, but he was SURROUNDED by girls that were his friends. i wanted to talk to him soo much, but i couldnt do it. i need to be more comfortable around guys, but how do i do it??

Find any way possible to sit near them or be around them. Sometimes it's usually better if it's just the two of you so he's not occupied talking to someone else but if you do hear something they're talking about comment on it if you have something intresting to say about it and they'll willingly let you in their conversation. but if you're okwardly sitting or standing near a guy alone, make a comment on something if it's too weird to just start talking to him. That way you can get up a conversation then ask him about himself and stuff like that. After that, you'll know eachother and they'll probably start aproaching you. = )

Good luck with these guys, x0x Jordy|♥

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(Rating: 5) WOW! thanks for the help =D i really appriciate it.

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