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Ok, so i have this problem. I always dress in black or dark colors and i've been doin this all my life. Some of my friends are starting to get pissed that i'm always dark. they're embarrassed when we go out in public just because of me. They yelled at me but i just told them to piss off. this can become a problem. Should i just keep telling them to shut the hell up and put up with it or try to deal it out with them?
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are you sure these are your friends? if they yell at you and are embarassed to be seen in public with you, then you better find other friends who will treat you with respect.
If they are tired of seeing you in dark colors, they could have suggested a "make-over" or something. Like, maybe they could go with you shop and make you try out other colors, maybe white.
I'm not sure why you prefer to dress in dark colors all the time, but you know, change can be good. You don't have to buy a lot of light colored clothes all of a sudden. Why don't you just try on some, in a fitting room or at home?
if you really don't like light colors then you are free to stick to your wardrobe but I don't think it's ok to be treated that way by your "friends". They should accept you the way you are, and if there is room for improvement, they should help you, not yell at you.
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