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My alias is Farren, and I'm in 9th grade. I think I'm mature for my age, but that could just be self-dilusion. I believe that everyone is in some way self-dilusional. So yeah, ask me a question if you want.

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Hey! My boyfriend and I have been going out for ten months in March, and I really think that him and I are in love. Not just in a physical sense, but him and I connect mentally. We both really enjoy intellectual discussions about anything and everything. We can talk about any problems that we're having and the other can almost always relate. We can stay on the phone for hours at a time and not get bored, and both of us are extremely loyal to the other. We're just like best friends excluding the romance part. We're really close. The only thing is, sometimes it gets so discouraging when people say we're too young to be in love. I know we're both in love with each other, but other than getting married when we're able to (He and I are both fourteen), how can we deal with annoying old people who think love can only be understood at a certain age? Thanks in advance.

Well, the reason they think love can only be understood at a certain age is because most people our age don't know what love is, they don't understand it, and they confuse liking or being sexual with love. So, they have a point, but there are some people who are truly young and in love, and you two may be. You just have to ignore them, if you know in your heart that it's love then nothing else matters. You should always try to understand where other people are coming from though. Anyways, good luck and congratulations on ten months!
-Farren

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