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how do you tell some one who wants to know when you are in pain and need some kind of outlet, but you don't want to tell them what is bugging you, making you feel like suicide is the only outlet? and this person is some one that you love so much you would die for them, literally. what can i say to make him understand that i love him, but i don't want him to know what i am going through?
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First off, If you love him, then you won't want to put him through the anguish and the "did I cause her to kill herself" questions of your suicide.


Now that I said that, I think the real question here isn't how to tell him that you love him and not know what you're going through. THe real question is this; why do you not want to tell him what you're going through? Don't just blurt out an answer. Think about this question deep. Real deep. Why do you not want him to know? What's the fear?


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i don't want to put him through that, but i can't talk to people. i have this problem with opening up to people. i feel as though if i tell some one what is wrong i am putting a burden on them that they don't need. i have always been like that, and that is how i am. but i really like your answer. thank you.




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