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My mission on Advicenators is to be honest. People lie when they answer because they want to be rated high, but I think people ask strangers on Advicenators things because they want an honest answer.My alias is Farren, and I'm in 9th grade. I think I'm mature for my age, but that could just be self-dilusion. I believe that everyone is in some way self-dilusional. So yeah, ask me a question if you want.
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ok this is a really long story. Ill make it short. I use to be friends with these 3 girls. They are like stuck up girls really who are not popular or anything but they think they are. Well they said that i got on their nerves and that they really dont want to be my friend anymore. So like a regular person I was hurt. I was the one who helped them meet each other. So I got upset and decided that I was going to hang out with my other friends. One friend told me she was sorry but i was mad. I said that it was stupid that they all ganged up on me all at once for no reason and even talked behind my back about it. She said that the other two girls said that I got on their nevers because i put ketchup on my chikin. so that made me more mad. Then this really big fight happened and we are no longer friends. I even told her that i was sorry because it was acctually my fault a little because i yelled at her. She started to tell lies that I had said i was going to kick her ass and she got her mom to call the school and stuff so that i didnt look at her ( stupid she rides me bus) every time i pass by her and the other girls try to make me mad and I had told her that there was no way that i was going to get mad because God did not put me on this earth to try and impress her or anyone else for that matter. I think that made her even more mad. now i dont now if i should tell her that i was sorry or if i should be mad... i feel like i am a push over. what should i do.
Don't do anything. Just ignore them. You don't have to be friends or enemies, you can just not hang out with them. Neutrality is always a good option. Hang out with other people, you don't have to acknowledge their existence.
-Farren
(Rating: 5) thats hard because they are telling people not to be my friend and they listen