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Q: ok i know this one girl who ive known since last year we sat at the same lunch table, then this year we have spanish together..were not close but we do talk here and there. she went out with guy danny whos in 11th grade and they recently broke up after 6 months or so. my other friend had met him in a chat and they talk and so on, and anyways we were going to the mall on saturday and so we went. we come back and shes at my house waiting for her mom to pick her up so were talking to him on-line n seemed nice. so after she left we started talking and all, i seem a lil into him i dk, i saw him be4 like once or twice with the girl who went out with him. i just found out that he was in my lunch last sem and all so i kinda knew who he wasnt, i just never saw him only the back or something when the 2 were leavin the caf. i dont know if hes into me or something i never actually met him or anything, but im affaird to accept if he ever asks me out since i have friends who were friends with who he went out with, plus i also know her as well. then today my other friend who was over my house saturday night says she was confused and i asked why and she said bc she "bc i have a bf and i also like danny a lil" and i said "o0o the one from other night on-line?" and she said "yeah" and i just went "o0o" and she asked "y?" and i just said "j/w" and now i dk what to do, bc i dont want to hurt either of them if he ever asks me, which i know he would never do ask me but u never know.

-o n my friend moved so she doesnt go to our school anymore, though i am...i also dk about his ex who im some what friends with who does go to our school..thx

~i know its long n a lil confusing sry

(btw he is in 11th (which i meantioned) and me n the 2 girls r in 9th)

questions-

1- should i go with him if i have a chance?
2- wut do i do with the ex whom im some what friends with?
3- what do i do with my friend who has a bf but also likes him?
it seems that you have to decide what is more important to you right now, your friends or your guy. but if u want to date him:

1- yes, you should give him a chance
2- i dont know.....
3- you have to tell her that she needs to be content with the guy she has!! if you like him... thats your perrogative, and it makes you feel better. dont sweat it

**_Nicole_**

thx

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Hi. Im Nicole. Im here to help, so ask me a question and i'll answer it in all honesty. Im not gonna try to belittle you are anything, because that is totally uncool. If you dont like my advice, then dont even rate. I love to hang out and do a lot of shopping, as the average girl does. I live in florida, and it is kinda hard now that it is the year of the hurricane.. but im not here to complain. Im here to help you, your friend, and whoever wants it. Power to ppl who need help!! (haha, that didnt come out exactly right...) If your question is incredibly stupid, i will delete it. Ask away!

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