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**** I've been gone quite a long time. However I'm still breathing though it's touch and go. Don't expect me to answer or check in much. ****Welcome to the junkdrawer that is my brain! I know something about many things, and I if I don't know it, I admit that I don't know. That I am constantly finding things I know nothing about and correcting that ignorance keeps me busy and happy. More junk for the drawer.
I love and have experience with many types of animals, including the human. I don't offend easy and I am generally cynical and a smart-butt. I love to drive, read, work on the computer and I spend WAY too much time watching Anime and bidding on ebay.
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Ok I must be the luckiest person on the face of the planet. I have been sexually active since I was 16 and haven't had anything horrible happen to me. I have been tested for AIDS on two occasions and have come back clean (teenagers can just be stupid sometimes you just pray it wasn't the wrong time).
I have abstained from sex for a year and a half. My period is very regular, but it is really heavy. It has always been that way. I am 30 ish and will be married next year. I have never been on the pill or any birth control other than condoms. My boyfriend is catholic (and I will be soon), and although he says its up to me, I wonder why do I bother with birth control now? Granted I want to be married at least one to two years before we have children, but the clock is ticking. I am very torn on this because everything seems to be in "working" order, but what if taking birth control wipes out any chance I ever had of having a child? And is anyone trying to use the temperature method to decide if its a good day to have sex? I know it isn't 100%, but I can't imagine just going haphazardly into this.
It will not keep you from ever having children if you start it at this age. In fact there is no saying if it will stop you from getting pregnant 100%. If God wants you to have a child you will regardless of the problems involved. It is suggested that when you want to have a child stop taking the pill and use an alternate form of birth control for at least 2 months to remove the foriegn hormones completely from your system. This is to prevent miscarriage and possible birth defects though the risk is slight in both cases. I know nothing about the temp method. I never really had to worry about pregancy. With my personal condition of anovulation, getting pregnant is nearly impossible. You can't make a baby without an egg afterall. I always figured if I got prego I'd just concider it a miracle and rejoice until I had to birth the damned thing. And C is right, it is your choice. I'm glad he knows that. Big Hug D
(Rating: 5) You know I thought I had asked everybody this question. Anyway. Thanks.