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ok well ive been goin out wit this guy 4 about 2/3 months and we still didnt kiss he alwayz sayz he is gonna kiss me and wen he is wit me he he dont stay by me at all he alwayz makes ^ exuses about y he didnt tak 2 me n stuf i realy like this guy & he tells me he luvs me & he tells his friendz he loves me but i dont this he realy likez me ! he also dont like some of mi friendz i think & he says they r the reason y he dont tak to me and i think it is wrong i am not alowed to have a boyfrend cuz i am only 12 and he alwayz says he wanna hang out n stuff but when we do hang out his frendz alwayz come before me and he ignores me n wen i talk to him about it he says he tried n stuff and im getting tired of it ! i really like him ! so wat do i do !please help mee
is he shy , scared of me or wat?

Dear Tired of Excuses,


Okay okay, lets take a breather and take this one step at a time okay? Ready? Here we go..


First of all you said you arent allowed to have a boyfriend. I cannot tell you I am okay with this. Disobeying your familys rules is not very wise idea. But since you still choose to be in a relationship lets try and figure out what's presently wrong with it.


If you have been dating this boy for 2-3 months and he still is not comfortable with kissing you, then perhaps you should consider the idea that he may have never kissed anyone before. You two are very young, he may not have had many relationships before yours. The only advise I can give here is to confront him about it. Tell him you think you two are ready to take your relationship to the next level (the kissing level). If he still feels he is not ready then you must respect his wishes.


But trust me when it comes to kissing, he will come around eventually.


As for the dilemma between both of your group of friends, I think it is best that you have a discussion with them separately. Talk to your boyfriend first. Tell him you want both him and your friends to get along. Tell him you are also interested in befriending his friends. I think it is important for your friends and boyfriends to get along with each other. Both will help balance the other.


I supposed the key to fixing your relationship is communication. Be sure and let your feelings out. Tell your boyfriend how you are feeling. Tell your friends you want them to get along with your boyfriend. And you may even consider talking to your parents about you being able to have a boyfriend. Secrets are never good.


Talk your problems out and I promise you they will fade away.


Best of Luck,


She Screams.


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