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I have a degree in Biomedical Engineering and Psychology from Northwestern University. I finished medical school and completed my M.D. at the University of Cincinnati College of Medicine. I am currently in my residency for surgery- hopefully to be specializing in neurosurgery.

I want to answer questions on medical type questions. I'm a big fan of Dr. Drew Pinsky on Love Line and would like to help younger people from the mistakes I see a lot of young people do when they come into my ER.
Gender: Male
Location: I'm from all over.
Occupation: Physician- Surgeon
Age: 29
AIM: ArunKSherma
Member Since: January 23, 2005
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theres this kid and he told me he wants to have sex with me. this is so gross to me! i cant stop thinking about it. i heard over and over in my head"i wanna have sex with you" its so gross i dont even like his the least bit! theres no way i can get this outta my head! please help! (link)
Edit: I hope that you do read this. I'm sorry that my adviced wasn't very helpful to you, but I know what you mean by what you had written in my feedback. I have/am going through the same thing right now. I''m just older and no one really likes me, at least not as a friend, and I live a fairly lonely life. I'm sorry that I wasn't more of a help.

Yours,
Arun





That is an incredibly inappropriate thing to say, even if it was in jest. I hate to say it but probably when you're older you're going to have to deal with arses like him, especially at parties, clubs what have you.

Unfortunately this is one of the things that you have to just let slide off of you. If you want to get him trouble, you can tell a teacher about it, because there may be something underneath his comment. You may not be able to completely get it out of your head- but you can skew it to make it feel like that you're very "sexy" or something like that (ie an attractive girl). Other than that, you may not be able to get out of it. I will warn you though, you'll probably hear more of it as you grow older.

Best of luck,
Arun


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well im not gonna talk to any one else but myself! and im am NOT a sexy girl. i feel like every one hates me im ugly and fat no one likes me!




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