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A bunch of my friends cut themselves..but for no reason..they just do it because they want attention and they want people to feel sorry for them. They always talk about how depressed they are and how much life sucks for them, and it's not true at all. Because one friend started to cut herself, the other friend started too as well, and now another one is on the verge of cutting herself. They all do it for attention and I'm positive of that, and they drive everyone crazy. I'd like to just not be friends with them anymore but I don't want to see them get hurt, and they won't listen to anyone when theyre told to stop. What should I do to make them realize how stupid they're being without actually giving them the attention that they're cutting themselves for? If they're given the attention they're cutitng themselves for, then they'll just do it again. If we all just ignore them, they could seriously hurt themselves.. please help. Thanks. (link)
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Okay. Either way, they're going to cut themselves. So you should probably give them attention. Because if you don't, then they'll have someone WORTH cutting for. You don't want them going around saying they're slicing their wrist because of you do you? Probably not. Let them know that you love them and that when they do this they're hurting you deeply, and if they wish to stay friends with you then they should probably stop. If they were any kind of friends they wouldn't want to see you in any pain, and it's obvious that you're hurting. Let them know how you feel. It's very important that they stop the vile acts, because it's not helping anything, Sure they may say it relieves stress, but I highly doubt that it does. You just have to talk to them, let them know, let their parents know, and let them know that if they keep doing this they might get sent away from all their friends in which they wish to gain attention from.
Good luck,
Megan
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