Member Since: February 7, 2005
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Last Update: May 21, 2005
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I am 41 year old male, at 18 I married my best friends sister who had been date raped at 16 (not by me) and was pregnant. I married her and raised the child as my own. We took in 2 foster children that we later adopted because she could not have any more. Although I was never in romantic love with her we had a good life and wonderful family. 5 years ago she had to have a hysterectomy and died for several minuets they revived her but she has never came back to "herself" I am now more of her caretaker. There is no sex, romance or even adult discussion. I can't leave her nor want to for the fact it wouldnt be right to leave her because of an illness that is not her fault.
I try to release my stress in the gym and other ways and have developed a very good physical appearance and have many friends, but Im so very lonley. I am afraid to have an affair, it wouldnt be right to either woman, but I so long for the touch, caress and conversation with a woman. I dont know where to turn. Whats your Advice?
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Turn to your wife. What would she want you to do? You're still a young man and i'm sure she loves you very much and she knows how much you love her. Ask yourself, if the shoe were on the other foot what would you want for her? There in lies your answer. You can continue to take care of her, there are so many options out there. The hard part is finding your balance, but you will. Think of conversations you had with your wife, you'll find your way.
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