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okay this is really weird.. im 13/f and i juss found out one of my best guy friends is gay! he doesnt know me and my friend know.. but now me and my friend cant look at him the same.. were not aggaint gay people but i mean when we see him talking to another guy its kinda freaky cuz what if he is flirting with him.. i dont know he has had a girl friend and me and my friend thought he was gay because he hung out with all girls but we didnt want to believe it.. and we want to be friends with him still but this is all happening so fast and we dont know what to do!! can you please help us and help us find a way to not think of him as gay and think of his as we used to.. we will rate 5's
sincerley
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One, how do you know he is gay if he hasn't told you? Don't believe everything that you here. Two, gay people aren't a totally different species and they are not attracted to every guy they see just like you are not attracted to every guy you see. If you are really his friend, the whole gay thing wouldn't bother you. I guess just talk to him about it and either you'll become more relaxed or you will no longer be his friend. He's still the same person as he used to be just a different sexual preference, and his sexual preference probably won't even make a difference until high school.
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