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Q: I went out with this kid name Joesph and before we went out I thought I really liked him. Well for X-Mas he bought me a diamond ring! I was like OMG we were going out for about a week. Well actually the thing was I did like him but he ANNOYED ME! He was sooo clingy and he fricken bought me a ring..it's sweet and all but over the top! Well I made an excuse up and told him that I was punished...I just wanted a break basically and if I wanted to get with him again I would tell him I wasn't punished anymore.I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I told him that I was punished. So like I was missing him and he liked me for a while and then started saying how he misses his EX GF!! omg *tear*! She won't go back out with him but still. Well I can't help it and I have been i guess annoying lately and I talked to my brother about it and he told me to back off of him and not be clingy and he will eventually figure out how much he misses me. So for a few days I did and then I called him this one day and he ended up getting mad at me so now he isn't speaking to me at all!! I apologized over and over again I miss him soo much and want him back...I don't think I could stand to see him with another girl! Anyone know what I should do?? Also..I have another quick question..it seems the only reason I always get hurt is because I crush so hard over any guy I go out with!! Anyone help me there?

aww girl...im so sorry but you should have screwed around with his feeling in the first place. so now it may be hard to reconstruct what has been damaged. but we'll sure try.

you need to talk to him, and say that you understand why he might want to break up with him, but tell him that isnt what you want, how much you love and need him, and how your there to talk if he still loves you, then give him some space and call him back or im him or something in like two or three dyaz. i hope it works out for you girl!!

**_Nicole_**

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Thanks babe...I will try that!!

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