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Dear Icy, I have a boyfriend witch i havnt talk to him for like EVER his like MIA anyway i dont think i like him anymore its like the spark is gone ya know? Im just worried that its not going to work out between us and that hes going to get hurt because he knows i like him lets call my boyfriend J. ok well it all started when J asked me out and i said ok then i asked my friend to tell him that its not going to work then a couple days later J asked me out again which was the 21 of december and i said yes and then its now the 3 of january and i havnt heard from him in a long time and im worried and now the spark is gone between me and J. Well ive had a crush on this guy lets call him Captian Crunch well ive liked CAptian Crunch for about 2and a 1/2 years. heres the story about him. I liked him then got over him then he started liking me and then he aslo likes me and the he went away for the summer and forgot about liking me and he is 14 and im 12 and im just depressed now cuz my life sucks parents are getting devorsed and mom has a stupid boyfriend which i hate and dad has girlfriend and on friday it should all be over. But the only thing is that my boyfriend is MIA i like a guy who probley will never like me again. My parents are getting divorsed, we are losing alot of money barley have any and my twin brother and i dont share the same friend ship any more. Im just dipressed and i need some advice! sorry for the length of this letter. I will rate 5 thanks
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Have you ever heard the saying "Life is like a roller coaster"? It sounds like your rollercoaster just took a detour and is heading downhill. Do you have to get off or can you hang on for the ride? As for your boyfriend, things happen. I doubt anything BAD happened, perhaps he's sick or busy with school. If it helps, give him a call. If you're too nervous, have a friend give him a call with you. Things are always better when there's a friend around ;]. Now, for Captain Crunch, we've all been in that situation before. Not necessarily the exact same one but I know that most girls today have liked a guy and then had trouble letting go of him. I'm sorry to say but you're are probobly right about J. Perhaps your feelings for him are not strong enough to drown out those lingering "tinglies" for Captain Crunch. If it helps, talk to J about it. Since he's your boyfriend, he should understand. I've never gone through a divorse or one of my parents having another relationship but all I can tell you is to be open minded. Even if it seems like you seem something in this new person that nobody else does, it is something you cannot change. If you have already tried confronting your mom and dad about it and they are not responded in the way that you wish, just sit tight and try to get along with their new found loves. Be open and kind like I know you truely are. Treat them as if they were new editions to your family. Speaking of a twin, I really wouldn't know because I'm an only child. I know that I have a friend that is like a brother that I really am not close with AT ALL since he got a "fan club" of older girls that follow him around but that's nothing compared to you because you have spent your whole life with him. Talk to him about it. That's all I know since I don't have a sibling let alone a twin which I can imagine is an amazing bond. Good luck and whatever you do, don't result to self-inflicted injury or even consider suice. Your life is precious and you are a unqique person. There are people that wouldn't be able to live without you and people that love you dearly. If you ever need any more advice, I will be here for you. Feel free to drop me a question anytime.
(Rating: 5) Lol ROFL sry thanks alot