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ok, well....for the basics..I have had sex with 2 different people in my entire life (and to make things worse, they tell people i did it with them like a WHOLE BUNCH!!!) , and now all of this persons friends call me a slut and say im sloppy seconds (because, i am now dating ther friend.)And, Im going to have to go to school with all these people next year...sooo, basically what im asking is how do i get these people to stop calling me names? I rate HIGH!!! please HELP!
Well,unfortunately,you can't just make them stop.But what you can do is have pride in yourself,and walk down the halls with your head held high.You know what happened,and you know that you're not a slut at all,it's all just some juvenile boys attempt at feeling "macho".If someone confronts you about it,let them know "hey look,nothing happened the way he's saying it did.I know the truth,and in all reality,HE knows the truth.So you can choose to believe what you want,but the fact is,his story just isn't true!" I know it isn't always the greatest comfort in the world,but you know the truth,and you know you're not a slut,you're not a bad person,you're not any of the things these immature people are labeling you as.So,carry yourself with confidence and pride,and just have fun with your friends and new boyfriend.Smile,laugh,enjoy life.When someone confronts you,try what I said.And if someone does something like yelling "slut" down the hall at you,look at them and give them a sarcastic half laugh.The more these people see you laughing,smiling,having a good time with your friends and boyfriend,and letting this whole thing slide off your back,the less fun it will be for them to bug you with it.In the words of Jay-Z "go on,brush your shoulders off"! ;) I hope this helps you and that things get better.They will,I promise!
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Thanks sooo much!
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