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Q: Today at skool I called myu exbf a fag. He completly hates me and I dont even think that he cares that I called him it, he just gets mad and I kno that.I honestly feel bad.I still care about him for some dumb reason. For the past few hours it just replays back and forth in my head me calling him a fag. Should I feel so guilty? He isnt the nicest person to me either. It really sucks going to school with him bc I have to see him everyday. I really want to forget him but I cant.I try and avoid him and completly ignore him but it doesnt work. I dont even look at him anymore. We just act like we both dont exist to eachother. I dont like being ignored by him. I broke up with an exbf a few months ago and it is easier to get over him and I was in love with him, then it was to get over chris.Why am I like this? Why do I still care about him? Is it bc at one point in my life he made me happy, I loved him and wanted him more then anything?...is that it! plz help me its driving me nuts!
you wish that you were still with him, although that dont make any sense. its like Sade's song 'Is it a Crime'. you kinda want him back, but you know that it will not work out, and you miss the fact that you and him were a couple. i cant help you NOT have feelings toward him, because only you have full enough contrl to do so.

**_Nicole_**

i actually do think that I still have feelings for him. I broke up with him last july and in october he found out that I still loved him and he got freaked out. About a month after that happened I told everyone that I WAS OVER him. When I kno I am not. But thanks for the advice!

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Hi. Im Nicole. Im here to help, so ask me a question and i'll answer it in all honesty. Im not gonna try to belittle you are anything, because that is totally uncool. If you dont like my advice, then dont even rate. I love to hang out and do a lot of shopping, as the average girl does. I live in florida, and it is kinda hard now that it is the year of the hurricane.. but im not here to complain. Im here to help you, your friend, and whoever wants it. Power to ppl who need help!! (haha, that didnt come out exactly right...) If your question is incredibly stupid, i will delete it. Ask away!

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