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"People seem to enjoy asking if the glass is half empty of half full. They stop smiling when I tell them it'll be all empty when I dump it all over their heads."
--Jimmy Fallon.

I guess I'm kinda the cynical optimist. People take this world entirely too seriously sometimes, and I really just like helping people when they need me.

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Just yesterday i was playing on my computer trying to zone out from my problems and my sisters. Well anyways i'm juast asking for tips to help me out because i cant use my computer anymore and i need to zone out instead of remaining depressed like i have been for a while. I would tell people about my depression but i am very shy and i dont really like to talk. I need any tips to zone out and i will rate high for them............................. please help me out im going crazy!!!

You need to do something to rid yourself of build-up negative energy. Doing some exercise take cares of two things at once. You'll feel better physically, you'll look better and more toned if you stick with it. This will in turn help your confidence so not only will you be healthier, but you'll also feel better mentally. Dancing is great for this. It's just fun, and it's good for you as well. If you don't want to do it in public, turn on some music you can really move to! It might be just what you need.

You need to talk to a friend or actually, someone you don't know very well might help. I like talking to people I'm not that close to sometimes becuause they don't judge. They don't go into with these pre-formed opinions of you. Writing is great for ridding yourself of bad thoughts or feeling bad. You never need to worry about a pen and paper telling someone or being able to relate. It works out pretty nicely I think.

Do things for yourself. Sit in your room, light a candle and read for a while or listen to some music. You need to relax from time to time. Life's pretty hectic for all us these days, don't forget to enjoy life despite the crazyness.
Well, good luck :-)

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(Rating: 4) thank you for the advice but im already in shape and confident with myself it is just sadness and all the stress in my life...............i have often thought about suicide but i have to many friends to leave behind so that thought will not cum back to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!^_^
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