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okay theres this guy that likes me.. and i used to like him. I sit with him evryday at lunch. Hes so controlling. I cant stand it anymore. All my friends say i should ask him out or he should ask me but i cant stand him anymore.!! Seriously. He really bugs me!! i turn my cell phone off just so i dont have to talk to him at night. He asks whats wrong with my phone, i tell him i couldnt talk anyways or that my older sister was using my phone and it went dead. That was true Wednesday Night tho. Yesterday in the note he rote me.. he told me.. "Dotn make any plans for Saturday night. We're doing something. What we're doing i dont know.. but"
See i cant put up with that anymore.
What can i do?
Please help me...
Christine (link)
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He has no right to have this control over you. I think he likes you as more than a friend and by talking and doin g things with you all the time, he doesn't want anyone else to get in the way. He need sto know that you are your own person and that you will do things with him whenever you want to , not whenever he wants you to. Since he has written you a note, write him a letter back saying, thanks for the note but have made plans already for saturday (even if you haven't) thanks though.
By being like this he will realise that he doesn't rule your life. You just have to make him realise this and everything will be ok. good luck
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thank u so much! that helped me. but its over between me and Jp. I got rid of him this morning.
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