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if you had the opportunity to have sex with someone you weren't dating but have hooked up with a lot over the past few months would you? i guess im just wondering because everyone says sex is supposed to be a "special" thing you share with someone you love. I think i'm ready but i'm not even dating the guy let alone love him-so if i think he is the right guy to have sex with is he worth the risk? My friend told me, "if you like him don't do it, if you don't like him then go for it"
also on a side note-if you were my friend would you lose respect for me if i made the decision to have sex?
thanks a lot yall :) (link)
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You have to think about how you would feel if you did sleep with this guy. Have you spoken to himm about it? Do you know any other girls who have been in your situation and the reaction they got from others? Your friend is right in the sense that if you really like him and do sleep with him then you will end up liking him even more and want to be with and see him more and if he doesn't want to go out with you then you will feel crushed. Would you like to go out with him? Does he want to go out with you? Yes I would respect you if you were my friend especially as I have spoken to her about it and you have obviously given it a lot of thought. but in the end it is your decision. Go for it if you are happy your fellings won't get in the way afterwards and you know he isn't going to be awkward with you afterwards.
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that's great advice-thank you for being so honest and reasonable-u really got your point across and i appreciate you taking the time to read this
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