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im sort of taking everyones advice.. everyone told me to talk to him and i did.. and he told me to wait for him.. and i tried doing that.. but im finally letting him go.. im changing my life now.. im letting more and more go.. and im just being more open with people.. i realized that i shouldnt just be there when he needs me.. and maybe i was moving to fast.. so now im just letting go.. and im actually happy.. im meeting a lot of new people.. and he is now telling me that he wants to go out with me.. but i dont want to.. cause im having fun right now.. im living my life the way i want to.. now how do i tell him that im not into him anymore.. i mean ive told him.. but i think that he thinks im lying.. and ive told him.. and ive told him millions of times.. and he doesnt seem to understand.. and its like im having new guy friends.. and most of them are starting to like me.. i mean its kool that one or two of them like me.. but man.. im kind of not used to this.. i know it might sound weird.. but im not really wanting all of this attention.. i mean yea i changed.. but i didnt change myself for everyone to talk to me.. like they do now.. i feel like im losing some people this way.. and im gaining others.. so i guess im asking more then one question...
how do i tell the guy that i really dont want to go out with him?? and get him to really understand??
how do i get all of the new guys to stop likeing me.. without telling them to stop liking me??
should i be happy that im getting new friends?? but then at the same time losing old ones??
and anything else that is in that.. please help..
I think you should say this to this guy:" I dont like you as more then a friend, we are just friends and nothing more. So please stop bothering me" something like that.
And as for your guy friends. You can have guy friends but if you dont want them to like you then just dont flirt with them or anything like that. But be nice to them, just dont make them think you like them.
I think you should be happy you are making friends. Its ok to make new friends and keep the old friends. Just when you make new friends, still keep in touch or hang out or call your old friends. Mmaybe your new friends and your old friends and you can all hang out together.
sorry this is so long
good luck!!..=-)
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thanks for the advice.. but i dont flirt with them.. im usually not even talking to them.. just to the guy that i really know.. and then they come to me.. and i dont know why.. they just do.. and im like a genuine shy person.. i just try not to let it show so much.. but i dont know.. i dont understand what i do..
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