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Ok heres the deal....I like this boy and I thought he liked me. It turns out he likes my best friend and is going out with her. Well today me,my best friend,her boyfriend(the one I like),and my other friend were at my friends house. We were in the dark in her room for some reason and her bf got up and so did all of us and he started saying "hugs" and started hugging all of us with his eyes closed. One time when he hugged me his hands went a little lower (not my butt but my hips.)He hugged me like 50 times more then he hugged his own girlfriend.He hugged me all the time and I know he could see who he was hugging. Then I said sumthin to him while I was sitting on my friends bed and he came over and like tackled me so I was laying down on her bed. He also tackled me alot through the rest of the night.I used to think he likes me and now I dont kno wat to think. Everything is so confusing.It seems like he likes me but if he did why does he go out with my best friend and tell her he loves her and stuff?It drives me crazy because I REALLY REALLY like him but I guess im happy for them because she is my best friend. Does he like me or not?¿ If he doesnt then how come he always flirts with me and if you just met him and his gf(my best friend) you wouldnt even be able to tell they were boyfriend+girlfriend. You have to like make him just put his arm around her.
-lost and confused
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Talk to him and explain to him what's going on. Tell him that it seems like he likes you and if he doesn't then he needs to stop sending the wrong signals and flirting with you. Make sure he knows that you don't want him to hurt your friend and that he needs to get his mind straight. Don't tell your friend about the whole thing until you have talked to him because you don't want to hurt her. If he doesn't like your friend, then he needs to break up with her because it is wrong for him to lead her on. Then, before you two go out (if that is what you both want) you need to talk to her about how she feels about the situation. Friendships are more important than boys so you need to get that straight. Just talk to the guy and everything should fix itself.
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