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(btw, we're 15, hes almost 16)ok well my bf and i have been going out for 14 months and recently his mom went to arazona to live and he moved in with his dad. lets call him..."Bob". ok so bob's dad doesnt like me very much. and we've had a long-distance relationship pretty much. and i never really got to see bob. well now his dad says that we're getting too serious and now he can only sleep over for one night ever OTHER weekend. like this wasnt hard enough. now i'll bairly get to see him. i used to cut too and bob is the only reason i stopped. now if his dad takes him away from me...i wont be able to handle things much anymore and i'll start doing it again. i really dont want to. but its just to much. so bob's dad is going to call my parents and talk about it (my parents were together since they were 15&16) but bob's dad is really stubborn. i dont know what to do. i really love "bob" and we really want to be together. i really dont want to lose him...but i dont know what to do...

Yeah, sometimes parents suck (but not always...). DO what you feel is best. Personally, I used to cut. But I didn't see it as a bad thing. It made ME feel good (I don't know if it makes you feel good...) Don't let his dad fuck up what you've got going for you. Explain to your mom and dad about your situation. They should understand...
Of that doesn't work, you and your boyfriend should stay friends (or at least tell his dad that you're just friends... ;) )

Best of luck to you! :)
~Laish

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