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What should I do if whenever I go to the mall with my friend all the guys look at her and not me... I know I'm not THAT ugly but... they just keep looking at her in a good way.. and it's making me feel left out... So, now I'm thinking of never going to the mall with her ever again... Am I taking it too seriously?

No, you aren't taking it too seriously--How you're feeling is totally normal and understandable. But don't let the creepy mall guys hurt your relationship with your friend! You didn't go to the mall to pick up guys, I'm assuming, so don't be too concerned =) Secondly, guys notice girls who carry themselves in a certain way...it isn't even always just about the looks. If a girl is hot but unapproachable, while another is just decent but approachable, more times than not they'll go for the approachable one...I mean, no one likes being rejected. If you know you're pretty, don't let these guys make you doubt yourself!

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